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Every step in this path of madness and folly wid breach, increases aversion, disgust, and hatred, until defence and anger the husband deserts his wife, or tu out of his house.

This catastrophe, in ninety-nine cases out of one hun occasioned by the wife's imprudence, for which the wo especially the sensible part of her own sex, most justly c her.

In the scene of domestic turmoil, where she beats the drum of discord, much more when she breaks up th compact, what comes of the children but utter discomfi

What prudent, well-bred man or woman will venture t a son or daughter whose mother could not live with her hu and where it is found out, and it never can be conceal that mother has superadded to her perfidy an extortion sistence off of the hard earnings of her husband as th of his expatriation from her tortures, this forever star last mark of public contempt and scorn upon her destiny.

Woman, thou art made for peace, love, and duty, for strife or dictation! Thou art the gentle dew of which freshens and cherishes the verdant grass and the flower, and not the roaring furious torrent, to sweep then

Thou art the living warmth and the glorious light fr skies, to vivify and brighten, and not the fire to cons the darkness for despair!

Thou art the celestial paradise of man, and not the to sting and poison his or thy felicity! Love him, or lea quit him, or cleave unto him. Beguile, bewitch, and cha as thou wilt, but fret him not. Banish thyself forev his presence, or bear in silence all that thy fate ordains

This secret power and dominion, which women so wel they can triumphantly hold over man, are essentially with their nature.

They are conscious of its possession, and by instinct pate its strength and success with the confidence of n and experience, even in the tender years of budding in

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The warm emotions of her heaving t forth these lambent expressions :—

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"I'll rin the risk, no ha'e I only fear, But rather think ilk langsome day o 'Till I wi' pleasure mount my brida Where on my Patty's breast I'll lear

And when she is cautioned by Jenny this ecstasy of rapture, she banishes all d

"There's some men constanter in lo
They'll reason calmly, an' wi' kindn
When our short passions wad our p
Sae when sae'er they slight their ma
It's ten to one the wives air maist to

And then, wrapped up in thrilling love
her pure and virgin vow, and exclaims-
"There I'll employ, wi' pleasure, a' n
To keep him cheerfu', an' secure his
A' e'en when weary frae the hill,
I'll ha' a' things made ready to his w
In winter, when he toils thro' wind
A bleesing ingle an' a' clear hearthst
Clean bag-a-bag I'll spread upon his
And serve him with the best we ca
Good humor an' white biganets shall
Guards to my face, to keep his love to

-We'll grow auld together, an' The lass of youth, when love grows Bairns an' their bairns mak' sure a fi Than aught in love the life of us car So that it is seen that this wonderful and of woman over man is essentially subsery sively depends upon, his concessions, his wa nable passions; that its sway is contingent

ous character, there are blended the most sublime and p ing attributes of feebleness and strength, of weaknes power, of purity and craft, of love and hatred, of seraphi and withering darkness; and that the bright or loweri velopments of these faculties are like the rich and d strings of a well-tuned harp, which bring joy or disc they are rudely or chastely struck.

CHAPTER VI.

MAN AND WOMAN.

Marriage essential for both-Only sexually diffe Friendship between same sex-Love only b Cannot be forced apart, or together-Love spective of poverty, mind, or purity-Passioncible-Temptations-Indulgence-Tricks-F with one or both-Can't be hid after trialences, and appreciations-Laws against bigam good-All dissimilarities yield to love-Wom miliarity with indulgence drawback on matri married early are mutually pure and happyNo peace, if doubt-No duplicate man or wor voluntary thoughts-Married persons-Circur equal matches.

ON the moral and physical developm pends their harmonious intercourse; and has been by itself, however numerous, pu their moral, mental, and physical energi monastic misanthropy; they become gree less drones.

There is involved in this branch of cu philosophy no obscurity: it is explained b of a few plain facts, entirely within the of ordinary understanding.

The dissimilarity between the sexes is at first view supposed.

The difference in their dress, the rugge the soft texture of the other, the parts th in the production and care of their offsp a more positive distinction than that wh tween them.

Their occupations make no difference, i performed by them in different countries.

wants, passions, and appetites are alike; the difference b them makes them mutually dependent, and increases the sions for their intercourse and intimacy.

The delicate sympathies of the woman towards man his pride and soothe his hours of care; while her weakne timidity find confidence and security in his sterner natur

And thus their apparent inconsistencies are wisely ma consciously to suit their respective deficiencies of charac The concurring tones of the same sex produce jars a cord; whereas there is harmony with the low keys of of the dulcet notes of the other.

Between men there can only be friendship, not love; s between women; but between man and woman there is

site and rapturous love.

These apparent discrepancies have no control over the bilities and preferences.

There is no other tie so strong, so deep, and lasting. Religion may be more devout, but not more ferven love; it may be more pure, but not more sincere; it n more calm and holy, but not more enthusiastic and resol Love pervades alike the hearts of the good and the ba is wholly blind and indifferent to the conduct and chara its object.

There is disinterested purity in love.

Pure men have loved most fondly and devotedly un and licentious women; and the best women have, wit gious fidelity and truth, followed to the prison and the the most cruel and dissolute men,

There is to this infatuation no stint from poverty, crin firmity, or opposition; all these increase its ardor, and f the never-dying flame of true and genuine love. It is a re ing and heavenly principle of our common nature, but made subservient to avarice and lust.

Under the dissimulations of love, base, cowardly, and less villainies have been perpetrated; spotless virgins hav despoiled of honor and every earthly hope; fraudulent riages have been put upon innocent and confiding female lowed by neglect, insult, treachery, and false and scan

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