The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and how to RespondVerbal abuse doesn't leave the same physical evidence as battery, but it can be just as painful, and can actually take longer to recover from. The new edition of this important reference covers the most recent developments in dealing with verbal abuse and answers the questions readers ask most on the subject. |
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Page 101
... yelling at me about how I fixed the eggs . I asked him , " Didn't you feel bad about this morning ? " He said , " Are you crazy . I ... yelled at me again , saying I'd attacked and blind - sided him . I was confused . I 101 THE ANGER ADDICT.
... yelling at me about how I fixed the eggs . I asked him , " Didn't you feel bad about this morning ? " He said , " Are you crazy . I ... yelled at me again , saying I'd attacked and blind - sided him . I was confused . I 101 THE ANGER ADDICT.
Page 143
... yelling about and what it means in relation to her . The key to responding to abusive anger is don't pay any atten- tion to the words . When you are being snapped at or yelled at you are being abused . Consequently , you do not need to ...
... yelling about and what it means in relation to her . The key to responding to abusive anger is don't pay any atten- tion to the words . When you are being snapped at or yelled at you are being abused . Consequently , you do not need to ...
Page 156
... yell- ing at me . If I can't figure out why I'm being yelled at , after trying for a whole day , then I shouldn't be yelled at . And who was it that was yelling at me ? Well , it sure wasn't the man who loved me . That man wouldn't do ...
... yell- ing at me . If I can't figure out why I'm being yelled at , after trying for a whole day , then I shouldn't be yelled at . And who was it that was yelling at me ? Well , it sure wasn't the man who loved me . That man wouldn't do ...
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