Open When: A Companion for Life’s Twists & Turns

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HarperCollins, Dec 31, 2024 - Self-Help - 336 pages

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Julie Smith (@drjulie) returns with this highly anticipated handbook full of “break in case of emergency” advice for dealing with mental health challenges in the moment they occur.

In this essential self-help guide, Dr. Julie teaches her millions of readers and clients how to navigate life’s toughest occurrences while they’re happening, rather than moments or years after the fact. What if we can learn to harness our emotions and stay present so we can process and choose how to respond to a situation with valuable coping skills?

Picking up where Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? leaves off, Dr. Julie shares the research-backed concepts and powerful techniques for emotional regulation we can use to weather our most vulnerable moments. Learn how to move through any situation with grace, including:

  • When it’s hard to be with yourself: facing vulnerability alone, dealing with your inner critic, and handling imposter syndrome.
  • When it’s hard to be with other people: dealing with betrayal and knowing what to do when you (or your parents) got it wrong.
  • When it’s hard to be with your feelings: coping with loneliness, anxiety, fear, and hopelessness.
  • When you’re healing from the past: getting out of a trauma response and learning how to stop ruminating about old events.
  • When you’re looking to the future: preventing making the same mistakes, tackling uncertainty, and finding your path.

Open When teaches each of us to find and listen to the positive voice within when we need it most, and to care for our future selves and our long-term mental wellness.

 

Contents

Introduction
When its hard to be with other people
When you compare yourself and come up short
When your friends are not your friends
When you want to be less awkward around people
When you feel unwelcome and want to fit
When you keep saying yes but you want to say
When youre dealing with passiveaggressive people
When youre scared of making the wrong choice
When youre short on willpower
When you must perform under pressure
When its hard to be with your feelings
When youre overthinking everything
When fear shows
When grief overwhelms
When everything feels pointless

When your parents got it wrong
When you get it wrong as a parent
When they dont love you back
When they love you but you wont let them get close
When you want to win the argument
When its hard to ask for help
When its hard to be with yourself
When your inner voice is your own worst critic
When you doubt yourself and want to feel more confident
When you feel overwhelmed
When you hate who youve become
When you feel like an imposter
When you have done something you regret
When anger erupts too often
Appendix
Acknowledgments
Notes
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Julie Smith is a clinical psychologist and international bestselling author. Her first book Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? has sold over 2 million copies across the world and has been translated into 45 languages. It spent well over 100 weeks in the Sunday Times bestseller list, making it the top selling nonfiction book of 2022 in the UK. Dr. Julie is the author of The New York Times bestseller, Open When... She has over 10 million followers across social media platforms where she shares insights from therapy that we can all use for everyday life. She lives in England with her husband Matthew and their three children.