Why Does He Do That: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

I was drawn, as most women probably are, to the descriptions of the different types of abusers. My spouse was described in eye-opening detail, right down to quotations of the things he commonly said to me. The author provided great insight into the root of abusive behavior, how abusive men really view their partners. As an abused partner, this book gave me such clarity, and equipped me with the information I needed to make a truly informed decision about whether or not to stay with my abuser.  

This book was heartbreakingly accurate. I am saddened by its revelations. If felt as if the author must know my estranged husband and I personally. I am facing facts and losing all hope of salvaging my marriage, but I am growing and learning. This book has helped me deal what has happened and realize it is not healthy to hold on to something that is killing me. I suggest it be on every woman's must read list. Even if your relationship is a healthy one there are undoubtedly people in your life living in an abusive relationship. The insights into abuse will help even those who are blessed not to live in abusive relationship better understand both the abuser and the victim. I highly recommend this book.  

This is one of the best books I read in my life. I want to thank the author, Lundy Bancroft for giving all the woman the opportunity to know and have an insight in the problem of abuse, what it is about and what can we do to live abuse free. I will recomend this book not only to women involved in domestic violence or in any kind of abusive relatioships, but I will recommend it to every women. It is informative and it explains a lot about our culture and the way the world see the roles of man and women. I think the key to stop abuse is to educate ourselves in the subject and educate our children, eventually this knowledge will be the best weapon against dv. Thanks again to all the man and women that work to learn more about this subject and to give us an opportunity to have better lifes. God bless you. 

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

The writing isn't always the best. I don't know much about how well established the theories in this book are empirically. But this book has done more to help me and other DV survivors I have known ... Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

Great insight. Enabled me to help some friends talk through some tough situations. Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

Fantastic book. This book is very informative and supportive for abused spouses. It can help keep your head in an even keel when things around you are seeming to spin out if control. It will also be a ... Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

Such an informative book. I learned a lot and was even forced to realize harsh truths of my past relationships that I had continued to make excuses for even after they were over. I highly recommend ... Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

This has been a well thought out, highly informative and provocative look inside the mind of abusive men. Bancroft has given practical ways to recognize if the relationship you are in is abusive and ... Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

I lived 23 years with an angry and controlling man. I left four years ago and could not make sense of anything . This is a must read for everyone. Knowledge is power. A brilliant book Read full review

Review: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

I learned useful every day skills from "The Verbally Abusive Relationship," but found the information in "Why Does He Do That?" regarding how to deal with social services and the court system, and how ... Read full review