books.google.co.nz - Those who have never experienced an abusive or violent relationship often believe that upon finding a way out, victims’ difficulties are solved: their life is good, they are safe, and recovery will be swift. However, survivors know that leaving is not the end of the nightmare -- it is the beginning...http://books.google.co.nz/books/about/It_s_My_Life_Now.html?id=tQkXpiDFMqEC&q=abusive+or+violent&utm_source=gb-gplus-shareIt's My Life Now